I'm really getting demoralised recently as things don't seem to go smoothly for me. It seems that hardworking people are easily exploited by others while the slacker/incompetent gets away with doing less. Sigh.. That's the reality of life or maybe I should join them. hmmm... that seems like a good idea.

Kids are also getting more and more out of hand. They are so used to talking back to us now. Think they have outgrown the age where they are afraid of getting scolded. Think they will only listen if we ban them from doing things that they like or even ask them to go to bed early.

I met Zhixiong, my childhood friend today. He said that I have seldom mixed with them now after I got married and have become a loner. He actually felt sad for me that I'm just leading a mundane life. Work, home & family. Actually I do not think it's a sad thing. Isn't it a luxury to spend the night with our family? Isn't our spouse supposed to be our dearest and also our best friend? We can always confide with our spouse and do not have to worry that he/she will tell the whole world the next moment or event backstabbed us. Anyway, to each his own.